Love is when you share a bowl of ice kachang and you save the atap chee for her.

It's when he lets you pick the movie and you choose the war flick instead of the romantic comedy, because you know he secretly wants to watch that.

It's not saying 'Hah! i told you so!' when she sprains her ankle wearing killer heels even though u did tell her so.

It's when he downloads Hannah Montana on his ipod although he can't stand her - just in case you ever feel like borrowing his ipod, you'd have something to listen to.

It's sweating it out with him rollerblading even though there's a MNG sale that ends that day.

It's admiring (as sincerely as possible) her fifith black pair of black heels which look just like the other four.

And most importantly - and this is the hardest thing to do - its walking away froma fight because you'd rather keep peace and show some love than prove you're right.